INFJ Relationships: 4 Steps To Deep Connection

INFJ Relationships: 4 Steps To Deep Connection

INFJ relationships can be tricky. We want deep, soul-shaking connection. But we don’t always know how to get there. Our personality consists of only 1 percent of the world population. We are rare, and not so easy to understand. Our rarity can be challenging, but it is also our greatest gift. We are unique, therefore we need a unique connection as well.☺ Establishing a lasting connection is a defining moment in our life. INFJ relationships are based on our magnificent ability to connect with our partners. The blueprint for connection in INFJ relationships is based on understanding. Not many people will be wired the same way we are. When we connect with someone, this truly is a magical moment for INFJs. Connection Surpasses Introversion or Extroversion My relationships were mostly directed towards extroverted women. I never asked myself why this is the case. I simply followed my intuition. One relationship in particular stands out. Six years ago I met someone who I thought was my soulmate. This was the first time I felt true love. What made this so special was the insanely good connection we had. We literally finished each other’s sentences. Never did I once pay attention to the fact that she is an extrovert. It didn’t matter. All that was important to me was that we understood each other. For the first time I told myself: “I can be vulnerable with this person, and not be afraid.” The relationship didn’t last, but I will never forget what we had. It didn’t matter that we had different personality types. It was that pure, authentic connection that mattered most. Here...
INFJ: I came, I saw, I made it awkward

INFJ: I came, I saw, I made it awkward

The annoying feeling of awkwardness is something INFJ’s are all too familiar with. We often feel awkward, because we can see something few others can see. We sense those hidden signals that no one else feels. This is a feeling I’m sure many of you can relate to. I am going to share with you my own awkward story. Not many people know what I am about to tell you. In other words, I feel completely “naked”, and exposed. So here goes. ☺ Young and awkward Throughout the entire high-school period, I was bullied. For me, every day was a fight for survival. I felt alone, didn’t know who to turn to. I would go to school crying, anxious, and afraid. My daily plan was merely to survive, and come home. One day, something happened that made me feel like the King of Awkwardness. Read The Full Article By Joining Our Free Private INFJ Forum >> Introvert’s Spring’s INFJ Forum INFJs rarely meet one another in the ‘real world’. Become an Introvert Spring INFJ and meet INFJs across the globe. Join our private forum and discuss INFJ problems, solutions, and idiosyncrasies. Start your own discussion topics or join a popular thread. You’ll also discover unique INFJ blog posts and infographics. Join The INFJ Forum Now – It’s Free!...
INFJ Door-Slam: Our defence Mechanism

INFJ Door-Slam: Our defence Mechanism

The decision to resort to a Door-Slam is one of the hardest moments an INFJ will ever face. This is our last resort, our absolute limit. When we do it, we don’t look back. At that point, we are done. This is our ultimate defence mechanism. My parents said to me once: “Protect yourself from harm. Always. Help anyone you can, but decide which person is going to be worth your time.” These words still echo inside my head. They find their way to the surface when I am forced to do the INFJ Door Slam. Many INFJ’s will, and quite often have resorted to the Door Slam. Our personality makes us caring, supportive, emotional, and loving. We will move mountains for those we cherish the most. We will swallow our pride. Simply put, we will do everything we can to sustain a friendship or a relationship. But even we have our limits. Crossing the limit A few years ago, I had a friend who was someone I couldn’t imagine living without. She was my biggest support. But as time passed, lies and deceptions began to occur for no particular reason. All of a sudden, I found myself in a toxic friendship that was influencing me in a terrible way … Read The Full Article By Joining Our Free Private INFJ Forum >> Introvert’s Spring’s INFJ Forum INFJs rarely meet one another in the ‘real world’. Become an Introvert Spring INFJ and meet INFJs across the globe. Join our private forum and discuss INFJ problems, solutions, and idiosyncrasies. Start your own discussion topics or join a popular thread. You’ll...
6 Advantages of being an INFJ

6 Advantages of being an INFJ

As INFJs, we are constantly mistaken for being shy, too silent, too prone to being alone. People often ask us if we are depressed, or upset with them. In short, they make all sorts of unflattering judgments. I myself have faced this in many different situations, being forced to constantly explain that we are not shy, nor depressed. But in most cases, my words were met with a strange look (if I could read people’s minds, that look would be “Yeah, right”). Late Robin Williams once said: “I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up alone. It’s not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone.” I couldn’t agree more. Once I was invited to a party, a party where, well, there were a lot of people who paid more attention to others than themselves. Again and again I was asked why I’m so quiet. I kept hearing that dreadful line, “you should get out of your shell”. It made me feel so miserable, I just had to get out of there (the party, not my shell). I know that lot of us face these kind of situations on a daily basis. This leads INFJs to believe there is something wrong with us when, in fact, we have many awesome qualities. That’s why I’ve put together 6 advantages of being an INFJ. We are decisive As INFJs, we use our willpower, planning, and conviction to pursue our ideals and goals with great efficiency. Our creativity allows us to create an impact as well as solve...

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