BUILD CONFIDENCE AS AN INTROVERT

 

 

That Uncomfortable Feeling… 

It doesn’t feel good to have low self-esteem as an introvert. You feel unheard, and ignored. You’re afraid that no one will ever understand you.

This makes you wonder if there’s something wrong with you. Worst of all, you feel ashamed of your true personality, like it’s a dirty secret you have to keep hidden.

I’ve been there.

For years I was sure there was something wrong with me. I’d compare myself to all the extroverts around me and feel completely inadequate.

As an introvert like me, you probably know what it’s like to …

* Feel ashamed of your true personality, and struggle to ‘fix’ yourself

* Feel awkward and timid speaking up in groups

* Feel self-conscious about your quietness and disappearing acts 

* Feel frustrated when people ignore you and assume you’re stupid because you’re quiet

Perhaps you’ve tried to build confidence before, but you unknowingly fell prey to one of the 4 sneaky confidence killers that knock an introvert’s self-esteem down at its knees.

Confidence Killer #4 will probably surprise you.  

Sneaky Introvert Confidence Killer #1

You try hard to look confident on the outside, but feel awkward and alone on the inside.

As an introvert, you are an internal processor. Sure, body language and social skills matter, but without an internal shift, you still feel insecure and unhappy.

Of course, more confidence can help you cultivate all of the above. But for introverts there’s more to it than that.

For introverts, more confidence means …

* less overthinking and feeling guilty about who you are

* more courage when it comes to socializing in groups

* ZERO guilt or embarrassment about your quiet nature

* feeling heard and respected when you do speak up

The best way for you to build confidence as an introvert is to recognize that confidence looks different for you. It might not be bold and outgoing. Instead, it could be quiet, but determined. Or courageous, but reserved.

Sneaky Introvert Confidence Killer #2

You follow extrovert biased advice that makes you feel exhausted and inadequate.

Extroverts and introverts are different. Taking an extroverted approach to building confidence will exhaust and discourage you.

A lot of social skills ‘experts’ tell you to just “get out there” to build confidence. But the extroverted approach to confidence feels backwards for introverts.

Sneaky Introvert Confidence Killer #3

You try to do it on your own. Like most introverts, you pride yourself on being independent, so you try to ‘fix’ yourself on your own. But without any outside feedback, you stay stuck.

I’ll be honest with you, it takes a while to go from insecure to self-assured as an introvert – especially when you try to piece together all the steps yourself.

I tried to do it all on my own and it took me years of painful trial and error to discover the confidence building tools that work like magic for introverts like us.

With my Unbreakable Confidence For Introverts course, you receive a step-by-step system to gain confidence much faster than if you try to do it on your own.

With Unbreakable Confidence, you’ll …

* Receive introvert-specific advice to create core confidence in all areas of your life

* Discover the source of deep-seated insecurities and uproot them once and for all

* Reboot your brain by clearing out limiting thoughts and adopting a confident mindset

* Feel more secure in your relationships as you boost your self-esteem

* Develop courage to meet new people and build lasting friendships

* Learn how to stop people pleasing and be assertive without feeling guilty

* Develop confident communication skills that draw people in naturally

* Learn voice tone and body language secrets that instantly convey confidence

This course is one of my most popular ever and it’s normally not available. But for this throwback sale you can access the course before it goes back in the vault for good.

Grab UC today and you’ll get my Unshakeable Self-Love for Introverts workshop as a bonus ($67 value).

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BONUS UNSHAKEABLE SELF-LOVE WORKSHOP ($67 Value)

In this 1.5 hour live virtual workshop recording, you’ll discover:
  • 8 surprising short-cuts to self-love specifically made for introverts
  • My introvert-specific L.O.V.E method to end self-hatred and fall in love with YOU
  • The secret to loving and accepting yourself 100%, even if you feel totally unloveable
  • How to overcome persistent negative thoughts and make your mind a safe, loving space
  • Strategies for staying self-loving when you are overwhelmed and full of self-doubt
  • How to speak the language of self-love so that your true worth finally sinks in

Weekly Lessons

Lesson 1: Stop Self-Sabotage & Create Lasting Confidence

Discover the sneaky reasons you’ve been sabotaging your confidence and how to overcome them. You’ll also dive into the most important first step to transform your self-esteem, even if you’ve been stuck for years.

Lesson 2: Uproot Insecurities Once & for All

Identify sneaky beliefs and patterns that have been holding you back from true confidence. Use proven tools to gently uproot them and move forward.

Lesson 3: Cultivate a Confident Mindset

Receive 5 essential steps for building an unbreakably confident mindset. You’ll also discover the secret to release worries and regrets that plague your overthinking mind.

Lesson 4: Build an Emotional Ecosystem for Confidence

Discover how to develop core confidence that endures in any environment, PLUS steps to create a strong emotional ecosystem so you stop caring so much what others think.

Lesson 5: Stop People Pleasing & Be More Assertive

Receive techniques to be liked and respected without people pleasing. You’ll also gain essential steps for communicating assertively WITHOUT guilt or overcompensation,

Lesson 6: Voice Tone for Confident Communication

Discover the secret to sounding interesting and intelligent when you speak. You’ll also receive a breathing exercise to strengthen your voice, plus tips to say more with less, and have an impact when you talk.

Lesson 7: Body Language for Confident Communication

Get clear steps to have magnetic body language in any situation, as well as 5 easy ways to appear more confident in an instant—even if you’re normally self-conscious.

Lesson 8: Feel Secure In Any Conversation

Gain simple yet insanely effective communication tips that will have you oozing charisma in your own quiet way, AND a surprising shortcut to confident conversation skills that introverts often miss.

I recently finished this course, and I just have to say how much it has changed my life! I was down in the depths of despair, where prescriptions and therapy couldn’t reach me, let alone help me. But I made myself go through your course, and did all of the exercises in it…And the results have been nothing short of stunning! I feel so much better, sleep better, and think so much more positively now!  I now believe that I am worthy of happiness and love, and nothing is going to hold me back anymore!
Mike G.

Since starting Unbreakable Confidence I seem to be making strides. I feel less awkward and a little more comfortable and I am excited about progressing…I’m beginning to understand I have limits too and need to give myself quiet and alone time. I’m learning not to sabotage myself so much.

Joey M.

t’s scary how deep you seem to be inside my head with this course. I loved the worksheets … now that I’m getting past my own self-sabotaging and insecurities I see the amazing opportunities out there.
BJ Pivonka

My consultant said that I have improved comparing to when we first and second met. I have a warm greeting, I speak louder, and express more. I think this course has inspired and helped me.
Jenny M.

I just want to tell you that I’m in such a great state of mind right now. I got myself a new job .. in exactly the area I’d hoped for. I’m so happy for this dream work. I want to thank you once again, because I wouldn’t have been able to take the step without your coaching.
Kecke Hele

It is actually a very nice experience to do this course and to find out that there’s an explanation for my “strange behaviour” lately: almost everything you mention in lesson 1 resonates!!
So, to sum up, I am learning a lot with this first lesson: not only to recognise this self-sabotage (which I do) but also to learn to be more playful, and let my artistic voice express itself.
Stephanie

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Meet Your Mentor: Transformational Introvert Coach & Author Michaela Chung

Michaela Chung is the author of the Amazon bestseller, The Irresistible Introvert. She is an expert on introversion with a rich background in communication and self-development strategies.

Best known for her popular website, Introvert Spring, which has received over 2.7 million visitors since its creation, Michaela has been prolific in sharing her expertise on the topic of introversion. Here work has been featured in Huffpost, The Globe and Mail, INC, FLARE Magazine, CBC Radio, and The Chicago Tribune, to name a few.

Michaela Chung