I’m Michaela, and I know how it feels to not know what to say… 

Grab my Introvert Conversation Cheat Sheet and spark interesting conversations, even if you’re quiet like me.

It’s tough making friends when you hate small talk and get tongue-tied easily.

It sucks to not know what to say to connect. Being an introvert myself, I’ve discovered what works best.
Having a few smart topics, go-to questions, and fail-proof conversation ignitors in your back pocket is key.
Get started with my conversation cheat sheet.

Come closer dearest…

And let me introduce myself. I’m Michaela, author of The Irresistible Introvert. I’ve literally crossed oceans for you!
In 2012, I quit my job and set out on my hero’s journey across 7 countries and 3 continents to discover my purpose. Well, I found it!
Now, I help introverts like you develop irresistible charisma in your own quiet way. Millions of readers,  and hundreds of students later, I’m still the same ol’ introverted me! Because here’s the thing.
You don’t have to be an extrovert to be a conversation genius with mad social skills. Stick with me and I’ll show you how, love. 🙂

“The OAR method helped me tremendously when I went to visit a friend and her family. I was surprised how it worked so quickly. I wasn’t perfect but I noticed that I was reacting positively towards people’s conversations even if they were talking negatively.” 


Conversation Genius Student

“I took the advice from it and the best thing now is that I am now the most popular person at work and I can connect with people outside of work, it is like I can meet any new person and make them feel comfortable and interested in me.”

Keith H.

Small Talk Quickies Student

“My brain feels more relaxed, and I feel more at ease in conversation. My consultant said that I have improved comparing to when we first and second met. I have a warm greeting, I speak louder, and express more. I think this course has inspired and helped me.” 

Jenny L.

Fulfilling Connections Student

“The conversation ignitors were put into practice at a recent Labor Day Barbecue. At this barbecue, I found myself much more present and grounded.  I was able to interact with those present without becoming overwhelmed, overloaded. I had some great conversations that night, was able to expand upon initial introductions.”

Amy L.

Fulfilling Connections Student

“The biggest thing I gained was learning how to express my true feelings. I’m already seeing people open up to me more as I feel more comfortable being vulnerable with them.

Sungjoon P.

Fulfilling Connections Student

“You changed assumptions that I thought were right but in fact were wrong. I used to feel that I needed to share deep personal things about myself in order to join the conversion. But turns out this isn’t the case and realizing this makes it much, much easier to build ‘social fruit’ and feel less awkward in conversations.”


Unbreakable Confidence Student