I Want to Be Invisible, Except When I Don’t

I Want to Be Invisible, Except When I Don’t

As introverts we don’t usually like being the centre of attention, especially with people we don’t know very well. All sorts of social situations can make introverts shrink into the shadows and try to put on our invisibility cloak… too much small talk slowly burrowing...
3 Reasons INFJs Are Amazing Conversationalists

3 Reasons INFJs Are Amazing Conversationalists

INFJs are often mistaken for being “cold.” It can be frustrating, because that’s not how we feel at all! INFJs are incredibly emotional. And in fact we love being with people. We just get lost in our thoughts. INFJs are constantly analyzing. Even during casual...
The Slow and Steady Introvert

The Slow and Steady Introvert

I’m an introvert.  I talk slowly.  I work slowly.  I even read slowly.  I wander. I daydream. And I often spend about as much time thinking about a task as I do actually doing it.  I’m not saying all of these qualities are directly linked to introversion, but from...
The Introvert Advantage in Conversation

The Introvert Advantage in Conversation

Introverts aren’t known for having outstanding communication skills.  But it turns out that there is an introvert advantage when it comes to conversation. I have been reading a lot of articles about effective communication lately.  Advice on the topic varies, but...