The Question Every INFJ Dreads

The Question Every INFJ Dreads

Like most introverts, INFJs hate small talk. One question in particular makes us cringe more than any other superficial query. Unfortunately for us, this loaded question is inescapable. It’s asked at nearly every opportunity: “How are you.” Being an INFJ myself, I...
Introversion vs. Social Anxiety – The Real Story

Introversion vs. Social Anxiety – The Real Story

As an introvert, you might have heard this before: “You’re just shy.” A lot of introverts are shy. Some introverts have social anxiety, which is similar to shyness, but more intense. So, you might be wondering, introversion vs. social anxiety – what’s the...
Comedians, Depression & Introversion

Comedians, Depression & Introversion

In the wake of the death of comedian Robin Williams, I found myself wondering, “why are so many comedians depressed?”  Williams struggled with depression for a long time before deciding to (allegedly) commit suicide.  And he wasn’t the only one;...
Setting the record straight about introversion

Setting the record straight about introversion

Most introverts are accustomed to others making incorrect assumptions about what introversion actually is.  When we tell people that we are introverted, we often hear things like: “Oh, so you’re shy?” Nope. “But if you’re an introvert, shouldn’t you be at home by...