I don’t want to talk to you…except when I do

I don’t want to talk to you…except when I do

Dear Innie Friend, Oh, I’m tired today! I have been in Puerto Vallarta for about ten days now, and I spent the first week doing and seeing so much. As an introvert, I tend to be like a social camel, storing up energy and then spending it all at once. I don’t really...
The INFJ Guilt Spiral: 3 Ways to Regain Confidence

The INFJ Guilt Spiral: 3 Ways to Regain Confidence

INFJs feel guilty all the time. No matter what we say or do, INFJs always feel like we could have done more. It’s an endless cycle of self-doubt combined with perfectionism that creates a messy conundrum. Saying this, I have a confession to make. I feel guilty all the...
An Introvert’s Strange Behavior Decoded

An Introvert’s Strange Behavior Decoded

Here’s the thing about introverts. A lot of people don’t understand our ‘strange’ behavior. Instead of trying to understand, they usually make assumptions that are way off base. I don’t really blame them. People see the world through the lens of their own experiences....
The Introvert Resting B*tch Face

The Introvert Resting B*tch Face

Has anyone ever asked you why you’re so serious? Or maybe they thought you were angry when you were happily daydreaming. Chances are they were confused by what I call your “introvert resting b*tch face”. The pain of having a resting b*tch face Introverts get a lot of...
INFJ: Empathy Is My Superpower

INFJ: Empathy Is My Superpower

Empathy is often seen as a weakness, even for the INFJ personality. The main reason why is because many believe that feeling and caring too much for others is a waste of time. The modern world constantly screams at us to completely disregard emotions and concern....
An Introvert’s Secret Christmas Wishes

An Introvert’s Secret Christmas Wishes

I wish I had more energy to enjoy the special moments — the way the children’s eyes light up, the warmth of family, the comfort of tradition — WITHOUT collapsing beneath the pressures of the holidays. I wish I could replicate myself and have my clone do all the...