The Introvert Advantage in Conversation

The Introvert Advantage in Conversation

Introverts aren’t known for having outstanding communication skills.  But it turns out that there is an introvert advantage when it comes to conversation. I have been reading a lot of articles about effective communication lately.  Advice on the topic varies, but...
What Every Introvert Should Know About Jealousy

What Every Introvert Should Know About Jealousy

We all fall prey to the green-eyed monster on occasion.  For introverts, it is all too easy to compare ourselves to extroverts and feel pretty lousy for it.  Perhaps, we secretly wish that we could think on our feet like a fast talking coworker.  We might buy into the...
Why Introverts Hate Talking on the Phone

Why Introverts Hate Talking on the Phone

The other day, while talking on Skype with one of my best friends, I realized that something was horribly wrong.  The video option was turned off.  And, as we all know, Skype without video is just a phone. Like most introverts, I detest talking on the phone.  This...
The Pseudo-Extrovert

The Pseudo-Extrovert

Put simply, a pseudo-extrovert is an introvert pretending to be an extrovert.  But for many of us, the word has a much deeper significance. Donning the cloak of extroversion has become a way of life for a lot of introverts.  It helps us fit into a culture that favors...

What Does a Happy Introvert Look Like?

An introvert’s happy looks different than an extrovert’s happy.  Even our pursuit of happiness may take a different form.  For an introvert, the search for meaning can be more appealing than striving for bliss.  We enjoy riding on the waves of subtlety rather than...

Finding Our Place in an Extrovert’s World

Introverts have a hard time finding the right social environment.  We often get stuck accepting what we know instead of looking for something better.  We think that we need to change ourselves to match our environment, not the other way around. In reality, we should...