How to Love Yourself If You Don’t Feel Good Enough
Are you one of the many innies who never quite feels good enough? Perhaps, you try to earn love through constant striving and perfectionism? Maybe there’s a little voice inside you that says you’ll never be smart, successful, pretty, or outgoing enough to...
The Sneakiest Introvert Self-Love Killer
How are you feeling today? I'm writing this on a Saturday, which is often the day of the week when introverts are in recovery mode. It can be a time of sweet relief, but it can also have its downsides. Sometimes unwelcome thoughts creep in. We think about how we’ve...
7 Signs You’re an Introvert Echoist
Are you an introvert who hates attention? When people ask you about your preferences, are you often at a loss? Do you avoid “burdening” others with your problems at all costs? You might be an echoist. Echoism is not the same as introversion, but many sensitive...
Tips For Introverts Who Can’t Say No
Are you an introvert who can’t say no, especially to your friends? Maybe you also struggle to be assertive and set boundaries with coworkers and loved ones. Saying no can be difficult for anyone. But it’s especially tough for introverts, because we hate conflict....
How to Deal With Introvert Overstimulation
Boy am I feeling overstimulated today! As a fellow introvert, I’m sure you can relate to the feeling. My brain is scattered and I find it hard to concentrate. Everyday tasks seem way more daunting because I’m already overwhelmed. The reason I’m feeling...
An Introvert’s Travel Guide
Traveling as an introvert should not feel daunting or overwhelming. Especially if you are properly prepared to take on the challenges of exploring new locations on your own. As an introvert, you're not limited to enjoying the world from the comfort of your own home....
3 Struggles of the INFJ Idealist
Most INFJs have an idealistic view on the world. Not only do we notice everything, but we also see it through the eyes of an idealist. However, this is not an advantage all the time. In some instances, it can be a huge struggle for INFJs to perceive the world as we...
An Introvert’s Take On Communal Sporting Events
As you’re likely aware even if you want nothing to do with sports, there are certain sporting events now and then that seem to capture the attention of the whole world - or at least most of it. Major championships, or tournaments involving international competition,...
My Biggest Problem? I Notice Everything
As an introvert, my biggest problem is that I notice everything. Maybe you can relate? Perhaps you, too, overthink people’s facial expressions. You notice the slightest frown or look of confusion and you immediately start analyzing what you said and did. You wonder,...
Why INFJs Are Worst-Case Scenario Experts
INFJs are worst-case scenario experts. For our personality type, every situation is viewed through at least ten angles and lenses. Unfortunately, most of these views don’t have happy endings in our eyes. It can be incredibly draining to start doing something as an...
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