3 Struggles of the INFJ Idealist
Most INFJs have an idealistic view on the world. Not only do we notice everything, but we also see it through the eyes of an idealist. However, this is not an advantage all the time. In some instances, it can be a huge struggle for INFJs to perceive the world as we...
An Introvert’s Take On Communal Sporting Events
As you’re likely aware even if you want nothing to do with sports, there are certain sporting events now and then that seem to capture the attention of the whole world - or at least most of it. Major championships, or tournaments involving international competition,...
My Biggest Problem? I Notice Everything
As an introvert, my biggest problem is that I notice everything. Maybe you can relate? Perhaps you, too, overthink people’s facial expressions. You notice the slightest frown or look of confusion and you immediately start analyzing what you said and did. You wonder,...
Why INFJs Are Worst-Case Scenario Experts
INFJs are worst-case scenario experts. For our personality type, every situation is viewed through at least ten angles and lenses. Unfortunately, most of these views don’t have happy endings in our eyes. It can be incredibly draining to start doing something as an...
Adorable Comics For Ambitious But Lazy Introverts
"Truthfully, I’m an introverted sloth on the inside.” These are the words of Dante Fabiero, author of Slothilda: Living The Sloth Life. Fabiero truly understands a dilemma that most introverts know all too well. We introverts have limited energy, but that doesn’t mean...
Dating Confidence Tips For Introverts
If you’re a single introvert looking for love, you’ve probably felt discouraged. You try to follow the dating advice people give you, but there’s a problem. None of it addresses the unique struggles you face as an introvert. There just aren’t very many people offering...
Introvert in College: Tips to Conquer Writer’s Block
Did you ever find yourself unable to complete an assignment, or perhaps worse still answer a question in a test? If so, then you had a bout of writer’s block that stood in your way like a granite mountain. I used to have the same problem myself when I was at college,...
11 Kahlil Gibran Quotes For Introverts Who Feel Lonely
When the heart hurts, sometimes the only medicine is poetry. For introspective introverts like me, this is doubly true. We introverts often struggle to find the right words in real life, yet we grasp our voice in the written word. Lebanese-American writer...
Why INFJs Can’t Let Go
For INFJs, our past is often a difficult thing to let go of. I should know. I’m writing to you today from sunny Europe. I’m currently in Serbia visiting my family, the very place of my past I wanted to escape so badly. INFJs don’t run from our past per say. The main...
Why Empaths Often Feel Lonely (And What to Do About It)
If you’re an empath, you feel the energy and emotions of people and animals. You’re sensitive to your environment, including noise, clutter, brightness, and the overall feeling of your surroundings. Being an empath also means that you have unique struggles, including...