How to Love Yourself If You Don’t Feel Good Enough

How to Love Yourself If You Don’t Feel Good Enough

Are you one of the many innies who never quite feels good enough? Perhaps, you try to earn love through constant striving and perfectionism?  Maybe there’s a little voice inside you that says you’ll never be smart, successful, pretty, or outgoing enough to...
Why INFJs Are Worst-Case Scenario Experts

Why INFJs Are Worst-Case Scenario Experts

INFJs are worst-case scenario experts. For our personality type, every situation is viewed through at least ten angles and lenses. Unfortunately, most of these views don’t have happy endings in our eyes. It can be incredibly draining to start doing something as an...
Why INFJs Are Confused For Extroverts

Why INFJs Are Confused For Extroverts

How many times have you been confused for an extrovert? This is common for the INFJ personality. Not just because we thrive on having meaningful connections, but also because when an INFJ opens up, you get this other side of us not many have the chance to see. Our...

INFJ: I love my solitude, but I love my friends more

I love my friends. Being an independent INFJ, I was always scared of using the L word. However, when it comes to my few close friendships, that fear is replaced by gratitude. That doesn’t mean I don’t like my solitude. But I’ve found that I can’t do everything...
Do Men Like Quiet Women?

Do Men Like Quiet Women?

If you’re an introverted woman like me, you may have felt like you were too quiet to be attractive. You saw bubbly, flirty girls get the guy in school, while you felt awkward and frozen in place with the men you liked. To this day, you might feel like you put up an...