The Real Reason Introverts Stay Home
"In terms of like, instant relief, canceling plans is like heroin." -John Mulaney Isn’t that quote just so true? We introverts love to get out of plans we weren’t too excited about in the first place. And it’s not just because we love being alone at home. Solitude is...
Why INFJs Are Called The Protectors
Have you ever wondered why INFJs are called protectors? Our personality cares a lot, but it’s more than that. All INFJs are fierce protectors, and we will do everything we can to safeguard those who matter to us. INFJ, the humble protector It’s a known fact that INFJs...
10 Survival Tips For Introverted Parents
As an introverted parent, you have known the joys of being alone. And you have revelled in such times. But that was before a tiny new human emerged into your life. Alone, which once stood for absolute mental (and often physical) isolation, now means 5 minutes “peace...
11 Crazy Relatable Things Introverts Do at Parties
Introverts are awesome people who need more alone time to recharge and feel at our best. We can be social, but often feel overwhelmed at parties. Seeing an introvert at a party is like seeing a deer in the city. We may look out of our element, but we’re still pretty...
For Introverts Who Feel Misunderstood
Most introverts struggle with feeling misunderstood. Others misinterpret our quietness as a sign that we’re snobby, sad, angry, or boring. They may also underestimate our intelligence. It's not your fault When you’re an introvert who thinks and feels deeply, you’re an...
How to Make Friends If You’re An Introvert
A lot of introverts don’t know how to make friends. Or, perhaps, a better way of putting it is that introverts don't know how to make REAL friends. You keep searching for the kind of friendships that feel natural, fun, and fulfilling. But something is getting in the...
How Introverts Can Ask For What We Need
If you’re an introvert like me, you might find it hard to speak up and ask for what you need. Even if what you need is as simple as a moment of silence, you feel like a jerk for asking. I totally understand. I know what it’s like to feel like your needs are silly or...
How to Subtly Break Touch Barrier with an Introverted Girl
The ability to touch a girl is one of the most important moments in the transition from friendship to something deeper and more intimate. But when you’re dating an introverted girl, it can be tough to break the touch barrier. Introverted girls can be hard to read and...
Dealing With INFJ Self-Criticism
I am my own worst critic. My inner INFJ self-criticism levels are so high that everything I do goes through a detailed analysis of “was it good enough?". Of course, I don’t relish the prospect of having to constantly question my own actions and words. But my inner...
How Introverts Can Finally Stop Worrying
Introverts have a lot to worry about. We’re constantly at war with our own mind, as we battle against feelings of guilt, overwhelm, and inadequacy. We desperately want to mute our noisy thoughts and stop worrying. But how? How...
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