3 Ways INFJs Can Overcome Fear of Failure
How many times have you wanted to do something, but never did because you feared that it wouldn’t work out? Being INFJs, we’ll analyze every possible outcome before taking action. It’s not that we’re afraid to start, but the fear of failure deeply troubles our INFJ...
How to Make Friends You Actually Like as an Introvert
Making friends as an introvert can be complicated. On the one hand, we sincerely do want to connect with people. On the other hand, we get really frustrated with all the obstacles standing in the way of true friendship. We want the kind of friends you have when you’re...
How to be an Introverted Boss
Do you ever get sick of hearing advice about how to fix your introversion? Thoughtful introverts really take criticism, or even well-meaning advice, to heart. We tend to overthink our flaws and downplay our amazing strengths. That’s why today’s article is all about...
This is so hard for introverts
Does anyone else find this scenario really annoying? You walk into a cafe, kindle in tow, in the hopes of having a nice warm drink and nibbling on some fiction. But when you get there, electronic music blasts from the speakers. You sit and wonder whose brilliant idea...
TONG-TIED! 4 Tips to Speak a New Language as an Introvert
Being an introvert through and through, I struggle with certain communication challenges that extroverts just don’t get. I often speak more slowly, and have trouble finding the right words. And that’s when I’m talking in English. Trying to speak a new language is a...
Why INFJs Chase Unhealthy Relationships
If you’re an INFJ like me, then you’ve probably experienced the pain of being in an unhealthy relationship. We are like magnets for toxic and narcissistic people. But this isn’t your fault. Our personality type is like sweet nectar that attracts unstable and needy...
Daily Habits For Introvert Happiness
For introverts, coming up with the right daily routine can be tough. Often, we’re so used to designing our life around the expectations of others, that we don’t even know what daily habits will make us happy. There is a constant push and pull throwing us off balance....
I don’t want to talk to you…except when I do
Dear Innie Friend, Oh, I’m tired today! I have been in Puerto Vallarta for about ten days now, and I spent the first week doing and seeing so much. As an introvert, I tend to be like a social camel, storing up energy and then spending it all at once. I don’t really...
The INFJ Guilt Spiral: 3 Ways to Regain Confidence
INFJs feel guilty all the time. No matter what we say or do, INFJs always feel like we could have done more. It’s an endless cycle of self-doubt combined with perfectionism that creates a messy conundrum. Saying this, I have a confession to make. I feel guilty all the...
An Introvert’s Strange Behavior Decoded
Here’s the thing about introverts. A lot of people don’t understand our ‘strange’ behavior. Instead of trying to understand, they usually make assumptions that are way off base. I don’t really blame them. People see the world through the lens of their own experiences....
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